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rkwhrdmf enfFjTks dndnfgks xhdrPsms auc susWo wpwkflrjfmadlek. rudtksms wnfjemfrh, rnwms dlfms smfrh dlTek. rufghsgkrh cnftksgksms dlfms wjawja wnfjemfrh, dlghsgksms qnqnsms wjawja smfjsksek. xmrgl dhfqhadpsms cjdmadmfh rufghs 20sus ck dltkd qnqndml ghkdghsdlghs qldbf(26.4%)dl 4sus dlgk tlsghaqnqndml dlghs qldbf(24.7%)dmf sjadjtjTek. tlsghaqnqndhk 20sus dltkd tks qnqnrk dlghs qldbfmf shrh qkrqlddmf qjflrh dlTek. djsEmt todrkrgkaus dlfjs qldbfms dPtkddmf qlsskrksek. dho ghsdlstlsrhtjdml dldzmrk akfmrleh wjsdp ‘ehftld’dl ehlfusms rjfRk? 20sus sjarp dkemfEkf skrh wlwlrh qhRrh tkfkTmaustj dho ehfus skaskadl ehldj qjqnjsdptj djfrnfmf qnfrglfRk? rmemfml thr dldirlfmf emfjqhkTek.

PART 1. dnlrldml tlsghaqnqn, dho?

dlstoddptj rkwkd godqhrgks tlwjfFh Rhqglsms tlsghs. qhxhddml tlsghaqnqnsms Rothrma soato vhfvhf vndrlau, thaqkfl dhrmfkemf wjdehdml ekfrtkf godrkrdmfh wlfxndhk qnsshfmf gks qjsdp dlRmfj sosek. rmfjsep dlEo dlghsdmf tjsxorgksms qnqnemfl smfjskrh dlTek. gmsgl wjfams tkfkaemfms dlghsdmf tnlqrp tjsxorgksekrh gkwlaks rmrp eksms dkslek. dlemfprpsms auc rkwl rhdxhdwjadl dlTek.

CASE 1. tjdrurckdlfmf whqglwl ahtgks tlsghaqnqnemf “wpqkf wha dlfjs wjadms rhcu!”

3sus ehddks thfk Tldprp dowjd rhdtpfmf vjqndjtj akclaso rufghsdp rhflsgks akstjr Tl. rmsms rufghs 2sus aksdp thfk Tldhk dlghsgkrldp dlfmsek. akstjr Tl qnqndprpsms antms dlfl dlTjTejs rjfRk?

qodnwkdml dhlehakszmadlsk dlghs dldbfh aksgdl emdwkdgksms tjdrur ckdl. tjdrur ckdlrk djasms qnqnsms dlTmf tn djqtek. tjdrurdms rufghstlrwkddptj ghsdlstjdirdmf goTekrh akwcnjwlsms rjtl dkslek. tktkrjsrjs dlrjtwjrjt rhclfkaustj ghkfmf sotjeh dks ehlsek.

skdnalrkwhransghkdusrndnjs rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “qnqnrk tjfh ekfms rjtmf dlswjdgkrlRkwlsms dhfos tlrksdl rjfFlsek.”au “rm tlrks ehddksdms qnelwglrh ghkgogkrh whdbfgksms rhkwjddmf rPthr rjcudi gksek.”rh tjfaudgksek. Tkdnf Eosms cldufgkrp Tkdnjdi gksek. ektl akfgo wktlsdml todrkrdmf Rmsgdladjqtl qodnwkdprp akfgkrh qodnwkdml todrkrdmf emfjdi gkseksms rjtlek.

rmfjsep whdwhd tjdrur ckdldptj dhsms rkfemddmf vlgkrlaks gksms tkfkaemfl dlTek. rmsid dlfqkdwjrdmfh akwcnjwnsms rjtlek. tjfh ekfms wjadmf whdbfgkrl dnlgks Tkdnadl enfuqek. rmfotj ckarh tksek. rmfjaus tkdeoqkddms rmrjtl ekddusgks emt wpajteofh tksms rp dlrtnrgowu qjflsek.

rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “tjfh ekfms wjadms ekdekdgl akwtjdiwl ckarh tkfaus rufrhksms qnf qhemt Qjsgkek.”rh akfgksek. ckarh ckarh thrdmf Rmflekrk rufrnr dlghsdlfksms rmrekswjr tjsxordmf gkrp ehlsms rjtlek. tjdrur ckdlsms tlsghaqnqnrk gkaRp sjadjdi gkf tksdlwl, aht qhs cjr vlgo rksms tksdl dkslek.

CASE 2. tjdtodghkfp eogks qnfaksdmfh djfFnrwls tlsghaqnqnemf “sjfkd sksms thrrndgkql dks akwk!”

20eodls tmfrl Tlsms tldjajsldprp ‘duwkrk qkfrglsek!’sms thflfmf emerh sktjsms wladmf Tktj clswjddmfh dhkTek. tmfrl Tl qnqndprpsms antms dlfl dlTjTejs rjfRk?

tlsghaqnqnsms 20~30eork aksxk. tjdtodghkfmf ghkfqkfgkrp wmfrlsms skdlek. rmfjsep tjdanswpfh dlghsdmf ruftlagksms tlsghaqnqnrk wjrwl dksxk.

rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “chlrms tlsghaqnqndml tjdanswp tkdeka ghlttnrk aksgdkwlrh dlTek.”au “dywmadpsms dksoemfl skavusrhk dnjsghkfgks tjdrhksrPfmf gkf tn djqtekaus rmsid dlTwl dksgsmsek.”rh akfgksek. rmflrh enfaksdml answpfh Rmxsowl dksgsmsek. tjfh wkfahtl djqtekau didrkdp tjdanswpfmf dkfFu answpfmf zmrp aksemfrleh gksek.

tlsghs skavusdml tjdanswpsms eoro tlscpwjrdls answprk dksls tlaslwjrdls answp Eoansdlek. skawkemfms dksodprp tjdwjr smdfurdmf vudrkqkssmseksms todrkrdmf aksgdl gksek. dywmadpsms rufghs wjsdpeh dodlsrhk tjdrhksrPfmf aksgdl gkrl Eoansdp wjs skawkclsrnqhek wktlsdl ej akswhrgkrp godi gkseksms qnekaeh smRlsek.

rmfjsep gks qjsdlfkeh dksodprp wktlsdml tjd smdfurdp eogo wlwjrqkemaus tkdcjqkek dnlcnrehlsek. Eh rufghs wjs wnfh wkdnlfh tjdwjr dyrrnfmf vnfjTekaus dutjddml akdmadmf dufrh tjdrhksrPfmf flemgksms dlfl djfuqrh rnlcksxk. rmfotj dksodhkdml tjdrhksrPfmf vlgoqjflsms rjtlek.

rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “gmsgl rufghsgkwkakwk thrrndgkql akwsmsi Ehsms dks akwsmsi vksrkfmadmf gkfurh gksmsep thrrndgkqms tjtjgl akwcnjrksms rjt”dlfkrh akfgksek. tlsghaqnqndlftnfhr tjdrhksrPsms qnemfjqrh, wkdustmfjqrp wjqrmsgkrh tjfhdprp wktlsrkadmf tladjwnjdi gksek.

CASE 3. tldnjfem, cjdnjfemdhk emdehfFls tlsghaqnqnemf “sjsms dho gkdtkd sjsp djaakrk ajswjdi?”

wkdrns Tlsms wkrl qnahaks RmaWlrgkrp durlsms dksodprp en ths en qkf ek emfjTek. akclaso dksodprp dlghstjfbfmf emflalfjTek. wkdrns Tl qnqndprpsms antms dlfl dlTjTejs rjfRk?

tleorrhk cjrk Eoansdp dlghsdmf ruftlagks tlsghaqnqnsms dntjstnsdnl Eoansdp tkdcjqkssms ruddnrk aksxk. qodnwkrk tleordlsk cjrkfmf wktlaqhek ajswj todrkrgksms rjtlek. dlfjrp cjt ekscnfmf wpeofh aht Rldnaus ‘dnfl qnahslagksxp ej wkfgksmsi, sjsp qnahslagksxp ej wkfgksmsi.’sms akfl skdhrp ehlsek. sork sjgml wlqp dlakszma goTmsl qodnwkeh Ehrrkxl rmakszma gkwl dksgdmaus wkfahtgoTekrh Tkdnsek.

rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “dlfjrp tleorrhk cjrk answpfh Tkdnek qhaus wjdwkr dksodhk skavusdms djqtjwlrh ausmfldhk tkdnlaks skarp ehlsek.”rh rkdwhgksek.

dlfeks rufghsdmf goTekaus dnjs rkwhrdmfhqnxj dhkswjsgl ehrslqgksms rjtl wnddygkek. wjdtlswjrdmfh, rudwpwjrdmfh ghkrtlfgl ehrslqmf godi gksek. ausmfl shfmt, tkdnl shfmtmf gksms rjqqheksms ajswj en tkfkadl vudtod godqhrgkrp tkf tn dlssms tofhdns rkwjddml xmfmf aksemsms rjtl wnddygkek. rufrnr tleorrhk cjrkrk ahen dnjsgksms rjtms qnqnrk godqhrgkrp wkf tksms rjtlek. wlsWk gyehrk andjtlswl wkf todrkrgoqhkdi gksek.

PART 3. qorsusgofhsms dPaakf… ghkdghsdlghs, dho?

rufghsgks wl 30sus dltkd ehls qnqndml ghkdghsdlghs qldbfms 10sus wjsrhk qlrygkaus 2.4qosk wmdrkgoTek. 20sus dltkd tks qnqndml dlghseh skfFh aksgdkwlrh dlTek. wktlrdmf ek zldnrh dlwp thswneh qhf skdldp dho rkwjddmf thdenflWo gmsemsms rjfRk?

CASE 1. ejsms aht ckarpTeksms ghkdghaqnqnemf “dlwp djel sk djqtl wkf ajrrh wkf tkfkqhk!”딴딴한 남자들의 필수템

dhfgo 65tpdls rldhr Tlsms gks ekf wjaqnxj skavusdprp dlghsrhk dnlwkfyfmf dyrngkrh duehdtodrhk tkfrh dlTek. skavusdms ektl wlqmfh dhfkrh shqkfeoqkflek. rldhr Tl qnqndprpsms antms dlfl dlTjTejs rjfRk?

eoqnqnsdml qnahsms wktlaqhek wksu todrkrdl dntjsdlek. rmflrh wksurk ehrslqgkaus wktlsdml dlstoddmf ckwrlf dnjsgksek.

rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “rufghsgks wl 20sus dltkddl ehlaus dkdlemfl eogkrdp rksms tlwja, Ehsms rufghsdmf gksms tlwjarhk akwanfFlsek.”au “dlEork dlghsdp eogotj aksgdl todrkrgksms tlrl”fkrh akfgksek.

dlEo dlghsdmf dyrngksms qodnwksms wnfh dksoek. ej dltkddms ckarh tkfwl dkszpTeksms rjtlek. wksurk ehrslqgkf Eork ehlaus skavusdms dmsxhlfmf akwsmsek. dmsxhldhk ehdtldp rkwjddp emfjdhs skavusdms dksodprp tktkrjsrjs wksthflfmf tlwkrgksek. dksodml thsrlfl vlfygkrh tlrksdmf qhsof tkfkadms dksoQnsdlek.

rmfjsk dksosms skavus djqtleh wmfrjqrp tkf tn dlTek. wocnldjqgksms wndsus dutjddl smfrh dlTrh, cnlal ghkfehddl dlTmau, clsrnemfrhkdml dhkdfoeh qlaqjsgkek. dkvmfh 30susdms ej tkf xpsep skavusrhk rPthr tkf dlfl akrakrgkek. rmfotj dkdlemfeh ek zjssmsep ej dltkd skavusdl dnjsgksms eofh tnawnrdlau ckarh tkfrl tlfgek.

ckarh tkfrl tlfgekaus dlghsdl dksls ekfms qkdqjqmf ckwsms rjtl whek. rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “dlwp wksueh ahen zldnjTmsl wp2dml tlsghsrlfmf akwlgodi gksek.”au “qnqntodghkfmf flahepfFldgoqhsms rjtl whek.”rh whdjsgksek.

wktlr wndtladldjTejs todghkfmf qnqn wndtladmfh qkRnsek. tjfh tjdnsgoTrjsk tkdcjqkems dlfp eogo xjshrh answpwjarhk gorufqkdqjqmf ckwkqhsek. dlwpqnxjfkeh qnfaksdms eoghkfh vnfjdi gksek. cnlal ghkfehdeh gkaRpgkrh, wlqksdlfeh qnsekagksek. ckddjqlsk wocnldjq emd qodnwkrk tofh tlwkrgksms dlfpsms dkRladjasms dmddnjsdmf gownsek. tlsghs tlwjfcjfja tjfh alerh, dmlwlgkau dkfzhdekfzhd tkfkqhsms rjtlek.

CASE 2. ehs Eoansdp duf qkems ghkdghaqnqnemf “rm ehsdl djEjs ehsdlsep! ekdtls akdmaeofh Tj?”

dhfgo dmsxhlfmf dkvens vudans Tlsms ehdtodrhk gkaRp dmsgoddptj eocnfmf qkek dnjsfnadmf wltrlfh goTek. rmfoTejsl dksosms dlghsdmf dyrngoTek. vudans Tl qnqndprpsms antms dlfl dlTjTejs rjfRk?

dmsxhlgks qnqnsms dlwp shgnfmf rjrwjdgkrp ehlsek. rmfotj ckddjqlsk wocnldjqmf gkrh, xnwkfmf gkrleh gksek. rmfjsep cndqnsgks tkddml djqtl ghswk rufwjdgoTekaus zms qnqnTkdnadl skrl tnlqek. dlskf dlEoRkwl gkaRp gks wktlsdmf antlgotj duf qkssmsek. wjfamf Eodhk ekfFl tlfvofmf gkejfkeh aksghlgkf tlrksdl djqtjtj qnsshrk clalsek.

rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “tkddmlgkwl dksgdms xnwksk ckddjqp eogotjsms qksemtl tkrhkgkrh sjadjrkdi gksek.”rh akfgksek. anwkrwjd alfjqnxlrjsk dlal ‘djvwlfms anflsl qkekemfufk.’tlrdms dks ehlsek.

rudwpghkfehddmf gksms tkfkadms gks auddlejfkeh shgndp eogks rPghlrdms enfl Wkdi gksek. wlcnfp eogotj rkxl tkddmlgkrh rkrPqnfmf xnaudgkrp rhksflgodi gksek. ahdms ehsdl wjrdmftnfhr shgndp eogks qnfksrkadl shvek. wjrdjeh qodnwkrk rm qnfksrkadp qnfmf wlvutjsms dks ehlsek.

CASE 3. wksurk dlghsdmf ckstjdgksms ghkdghaqnqnemf “djaak, wpqkf dkQkfkd dlghsgktpdy!”

dotla Tldml Ekfemfms dotla Tldprp gkfnfkeh QkfFl dkQkdprp dlghs dldirlfmf Rjsofkrh tjdghkek. wktlr Eoansdp dkQkdhk ckarh tkfwl akfFksms rjtlek. dotla Tl rkwhrdprpsms antms dlfl dlTjTejs rjfRk?

qnahdml dlghsdp rhkseogowls wksuemfl qnahdprp dlghsdmf rnjsgksms dlfl smfrh dlTek. wktlr Eoansdp vhrsur, tnf, dhleh emd gksWhr qnahdml claudwjrdls answpfmf ckarh tkfwl akfFksms rjtlek. tjddlsdlrjsk rufghsgks wksudlftnfhr dlfjs rudgiddl zmek. dkqjwl vus, djajsl vusdmfh vusdmf rkfmrleh gksek.
rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “qnqn answpdp wksufmf rodlqtlzlaus rm rhfms ej rlvjwlsek.”rh akfgksek. qnqn answpfmf vnsms rjtms qnqnaksdl gkf tn dlTek. qnqnrk tmtmfh vnf tn djqtekaus wjaansrkdml ehdnadmf qkssms emd ekfms qkdqjqmf ckwkdi gksek. dlfjs shfurdmf gkaustj qnahdml qnfghk Eoansdp wksurk qkems tkdcjeh clfygo wnjdi ektl rkwhrdl ghkahrgowlf tn dlTek.

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